There’s a kind of ever-present strangeness that hangs around you when you move countries. It’s the jolt you get when you walk outside only to be slapped in the face with cold, not-so-pleasant smelling London air. It has the odd potential to make you either thrive or wither, the careful balance between watering a plant too little and watering it too much.
I’ve somehow always been a person that is neither here nor there, never completely present in what’s going on, but nor have I have been so entrenched in the evergreen grass on the other side that I couldn’t focus. Stranger still is that moving countries has solidified that as a trait, cemented it into genetics until I consciously choose to readdress it, amend it, adapt. Living in London my head is somehow always by beach, but if I were to go home now, my life would be here – my friends, my degree, the foreseeable future of my life. By complete luck I’ve been hurdled into a life that suits me perfectly, that allows me to slow down, to realise it doesn’t all have to be done now, I have possibilities, I have something I never truly felt despite all the nourishment of the ocean: peace. Peace in myself, peace in where I am, and peace in where I’m going.